The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis
The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis
XO Podcast Network, Dave Willis, Ashley Willis
A podcast dedicated to undressing the truth about sex, intimacy and lifelong love. The concerns and questions most couples have in marriage often go unspoken, until now. Hosts Dave and Ashley Willis bring wisdom, vulnerability, and humor to even the toughest marriage topics. Together, they reach millions of couples through their social media, books, videos, articles, and XO live events. They have four sons and live in Evans, GA.
I Don't Want To Be My Spouse's Parent // Hump Day Q&A
Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: How do I communicate with my husband the stuff id like to be done around the house without sounding like his mother? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 26
6 min
New Marriage, Same Couple
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage podcast! In this episode, Josh and Katie Walters join Dave and Ashley to share their journey of overcoming marital challenges and rebuilding their relationship, as discussed in their book 'New Marriage, Same Couple.' They offer practical advice on confession, vulnerability, and seeking support, emphasizing the importance of staying committed and allowing God to transform their marriage. Their inspiring story serves as a beacon of hope and encouragement for couples navigating their own relationship difficulties. ------------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1 For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 01:24 The Inspiring Story and the Book 09:53 The Confession and the Summer of Hell 11:38 Moving to Charleston for Healing 25:12 The Importance of Confession 33:31 The STAY Acronym 36:53 Conclusion and Where to Find the Authors Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 24
39 min
Lessons in Love and Support for Aging Parents // In Memory of Steve Swanson
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast! We're honored to present a very special episode featuring an interview with our beloved mentors, Steve and Susie Swanson. Unfortunately, Steve passed away earlier this week, but we're grateful to share his last interview in this bonus episode. In this heartfelt conversation, we sit down with Steve and Susie Swanson as they share their invaluable wisdom and experiences in caring for aging parents. The Swansons delve into the importance of honoring and supporting parents as they navigate the journey of aging, offering practical advice for overcoming the challenges that arise during this season of life. Patience, communication, and prayer emerge as vital components in maintaining healthy relationships with aging parents, as the Swansons stress the significance of finding the right caregivers and establishing a supportive network for our loved ones. Their story resonates as a powerful reminder for listeners to cherish and care for their parents with love and respect, serving as an inspiration to navigate this journey with grace and compassion. Welcome to this special episode of the Naked Marriage Podcast. ------------------------------------------------------- Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1 For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage ------------------------------------------------------- Takeaways Honoring and supporting aging parents is a biblical mandate, and it is important to prioritize their needs and well-being. Communication and patience are key in navigating the challenges of caring for aging parents. Finding the right caregivers and creating a supportive network for parents can greatly enhance their quality of life. Prayer is essential in seeking wisdom and guidance in caring for aging parents. ------------------------------------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Background 01:25 Remembering Steve Swanson 06:20 How Steve and Suzy Met 10:24 Grandchildren and Family 15:10 Caring for Aging Parents 20:26 Finding the Right Caregiver 24:33 Dealing with Sibling Dynamics 27:53 Navigating Disagreements in Marriage 32:13 Maintaining Healthy Relationships with Aging Parents 35:04 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 21
37 min
My Husband Is Attracted To Other Women // Hump Day Q&A
Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: Is it okay to be attracted to other people when you're married? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 19
6 min
I'm Married to A Stranger
Welcome back to another episode of the Naked Marriage Podcast! Today, we are going to open up about the all-too-common feeling of being married to a stranger. Sharing our own experiences and insights, we'll offer genuine advice on how to bridge the gap and reignite intimacy. From carving out meaningful moments together to nurturing individual growth while prioritizing the marriage, we dive deep into the nuances of connection. With an unwavering focus on faith, prayer, and the importance of a supportive community, we want to remind you that laughter and joy are essential ingredients for a thriving relationship. Join us as we journey together toward deeper, more authentic connections in marriage. ---------------------- Takeaways Acknowledge the dynamic of feeling like you're married to a stranger and the need to reconnect. Prioritize spending time together and engaging in meaningful conversations. Maintain independence while actively pursuing growth and connection in the marriage. Seek God's guidance through prayer and surround yourself with a supportive community. -------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction 00:32 Married to a Stranger 01:23 Reality TV and Marriage 03:14 Acknowledging the Dynamic 04:39 Reconnecting and Growing Together 06:08 Spending Time Together 07:05 Living Parallel Lives 08:29 Maintaining Independence and Connection 09:51 Prioritizing Time Together 11:19 Concern and Curiosity 12:11 Avoiding Unhealthy Behaviors 13:08 Dealing with Changes in Faith 14:35 Feeling Like Strangers 15:35 Avoiding Counterfeit Comfort 16:30 Surrounding Yourself with a Supportive Community 18:26 Prayer and Seeking God 19:25 Reaching Out for Help 19:55 Laughter and Connection Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 17
21 min
Sex Is Hurting Our Relationship // Hump Day Q&A
Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question:My husband and I have been married for 6moths, and it's been rough. What do I do when sex has hurt our relationship more than helping it, creating frustration and hurt? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 12
6 min
Through Thick and Thin
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! We are diving into a topic close to our hearts today. We're opening up about the sacred vows of 'In Sickness, In Health, and Until Till Death Do Us Part.' Sharing intimate stories and personal reflections, we explore the profound journey of standing by each other through health challenges & More. From moments of vulnerability to the strength found in serving one another, we delve into the raw reality of marriage in sickness and in health. Join us for heartfelt conversations on the importance of empathy, honest communication, and the beauty of seeking help when needed. Plus, stick around for some lighthearted fun with the Let's Get Deep card game as we navigate the depths of love and commitment together. ---------------------------- Grab a copy of our book:https://store.xomarriage.com/products/naked-and-healthy For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage --------------------------- Takeaways Serving and caring for a spouse during times of sickness is a privilege. Empathy and understanding are crucial in supporting a spouse facing health challenges. Open communication about end-of-life decisions is important for couples. Asking for help and supporting each other in difficult times is essential for a strong marriage. ---------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Back to the Basics series 00:59 In Sickness, In Health, Till Death Do Us Part 02:14 The challenges of serving and being a caregiver 03:13 Sickness and health can affect couples of all ages 04:35 Understanding and empathizing with each other's experiences 05:05 Navigating life-changing injuries and disabilities 06:29 Finding support and gratitude in difficult times 07:52 Having conversations about end-of-life decisions 09:43 Honoring the wishes of the spouse facing illness 12:34 The importance of serving and asking for help 13:00 Let's Get Deep question: Involving food in sex 14:45 Reflecting on past decisions and finding gratitude 16:33 Recommendation: Let's Get Deep card game 17:01 Conclusion and upcoming episodes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 10
19 min
My In-Laws Are Playing Us Against Each Other // Hump Day Q&A
Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: My husband's mother believes it's his responsibility to take care of her, and we've gotten into some arguments over the subject because I feel like he's allowing her to pit us against each other. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 6
13 min
The Truth Behind Forsaking All Others
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage podcast, friends! Today, we are diving deep into the heart of marriage with a candid discussion on the vow 'forsaking all other's, continuing in our back-to-the-basic series. Drawing from our own experiences and those of couples we've worked with, we're shedding light on the gravity of this commitment and what it truly means to prioritize your spouse above all else. We'll be sharing some personal stories that highlight the importance of establishing healthy boundaries and the power of making your marriage public. Plus, we're tackling the tough topic of navigating relationships outside of marriage, whether it's with the opposite sex or within family dynamics. So join us for an honest conversation about love, commitment, and the beauty of a Naked Marriage! ------------------------------- Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Give a wedding gift to our producer Tywon! https://www.zola.com/registry/chloeeandtywon ------------------------------- Takeaways The vow 'forsaking all others' in marriage represents the exclusivity and commitment that spouses should have towards each other. Setting boundaries and making the marriage public are important in maintaining the exclusivity of the relationship. It is crucial to recognize and avoid unhealthy relationships, both with people of the opposite sex and with family and in-laws. Dream travel destinations and three life rules: love God, love people, and serve the world. ------------------------------- Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Importance of Forsaking All Others 02:14 The Significance of the Vow 'Forsaking All Others' 03:10 Recognizing the Lack of Exclusivity in a Marriage 04:35 The Importance of Boundaries in Marriage 06:28 Making Your Marriage Public 08:21 The Danger of Not Showing Commitment in Public 09:49 Identifying Unhealthy Relationships 11:40 Challenging the Norms of Marriage 13:07 Maintaining Professional Boundaries 15:02 Finding Your Own Rhythm in Marriage 16:52 Identifying Dangerous People in Your Life 19:46 Balancing Relationships with Family and In-Laws 21:08 Dream Travel Destinations 22:35 Three Life Rules 22:57 Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mar 3
24 min
I Can't Get Out of My Head And It's Hurting My Marriage // Hump Day Q&A
Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: My Husband and I are newly married and this is neither of our first marriages. With that being said, my past is slowly creeping into the sex life of my current marriage; what can I do? ————— Grab a copy of the Counterfit Climax: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/the-counterfeit-climax-1 Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-family For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Feb 27
5 min
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